Trauma
Trauma is not only what happened. It is what your mind and body had to do
in order to survive it, and what those adaptations cost you now. We work
at a pace that respects your nervous system, building enough steadiness
first so that remembering does not mean reliving.
Depression
Depression is often described as sadness, but the people I see more often
describe absence: of energy, of interest, of a sense that anything will
change. We look underneath it, at the losses and the anger and the beliefs
about yourself that keep it in place.
Anxiety
Anxiety is usually intelligent. It is protecting you from something, even
when its methods have become intolerable. We work on both fronts at once:
practical relief from the symptoms, and a real understanding of what your
anxiety has been guarding.
Relationship problems
As a marriage and family therapist, I pay close attention to patterns
between people. The way you learned to attach, to fight, to apologize, and
to ask for what you need was learned somewhere. It can be understood, and
it can change.
Self-acceptance
Many people arrive fluent in their own failings and speechless about their
worth. Therapy can be the first place where the harsh internal voice is
named rather than obeyed, and where being ordinary and human stops feeling
like a verdict.
Spirituality and meaning
I respect all dimensions of who you are, including matters of spirituality.
Whether faith is central to your life, something you are wrestling with, or
not part of your framework at all, it is yours to bring in or leave out.